You need help to help this boy. He is TERRIFIED that you will ditch him which is why he is pushing you away. He needs structure to feel safe, not hippie parents. Get Dr. James Dobson’s book Raising Boys and Jimmy Wayne’s book Walk To Beautiful immediately. You are part of the problem, but you can be the solution pretty quickly. God bless you for trying.

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